Webster’s
Dictionary describes procrastination as “to put off doing something that
should be done, dawdle, delay.”
In handwriting there is a
trait called
procrastination, that means just that: to put off, dawdle or
delay. But it is not the only trait that illustrates this behavior.
That is one of the amazing
(and useful) things about handwriting analysis, that is can show you, with a
clarity that nothing else I know of can, from there the behavior originates
and what is the underlying cause.
Firstly lets look at the
trait of procrastination itself.
Writing where the t-bar is
to the left of the t-stem, not crossing it, is the primary indication of
procrastination. I-dots to the left of the i-stem are a lesser indication
of the same.
But I’m sure we all know
people who never seem to get around to doing things, who don’t show either of
these traits in their writing.
So what else can be causing
their inaction? We’ll look at them in turn.
Caution: the cautious
person is holding back out of
Fear. Fear of failure, perhaps fear of success,
fear of a wide variety of challenges of new experiences. They want to get
going but they’re scared. Caution shows in long, flat final strokes (last
stroke before removing the pen from the paper) at the baseline of the writing.
Weak Will Power is
another culprit here.
Motivation, the ability to get started, this is what
will power gives. Without it the individual may have great intentions but
never actually get started. Will power shows in the heaviness of the
t-bars. Weak will power shows in the t-bars lighter in pressure than the rest
of the writing.
Perfectionism: if you
wait till everything is perfect before you start, you may never move at all!
Perfectionism shows in writing in a perfectly retraced stem on the lower case
“p.”
Confusion of Interests:
the confused writer has so many things on the go that s/he never has enough
time and attention to give to any one thing. This writer runs around in
circles, always busy, but seldom completing anything.
Confusion shows in
lines of writing running into each other: e.g. the lower loops of one line
overlapping the upper loops of the line below. This writer
needs to focus on
getting organized.
Deliberate: the
deliberate person doesn’t put things off as such. He merely “marches to his
own drummer” and will do things on his own time frame. Some people may see
this as lazy, but the deliberate writer may indeed be very efficient, just
working at his own speed. Deliberate is shown in writing when the upward
stroke forming the stem of the t or d is completely separate from the
downstroke forming the stem (an upside-down V shape is the result.)
Low self esteem: this
writer may indeed want to get things done but is unsure about himself
to the extent that he holds back from doing things.
Low self esteem shows in
a small personal pronoun “I”, small capital letters and small signature.
Self consciousness:
depending on the task, shyness or
self consciousness might hold the writer back-
the fear of drawing attention to self. This shows in the writing where the
latter part of the m or n (capital or lower case) is higher than the first
part of the letter.
Or perhaps what is holding
the writer back is sensitivity to criticism. If the
Sensitive writer
feels others will disapprove or criticize him, he may hold back from doing
anything they think might draw such a response. Sensitivity to criticism shows
in looped lower case “t” and “d.”
Procrastinators can benefit from
Goal Setting.
There are more. I won’t go
into them here, but next time you find someone “procrastinating” try to get a
peek at their writing to find the real cause for delay. By understanding
better, you may even be able to offer the appropriate assistance or support
and get things moving.
I guess we could close with
a slogan like “Don’t delay, analyze handwriting today!” (or not!)